
How do you know if you have Low Self-Esteem?
Low self-esteem can manifest in various ways, including negative self-talk, focusing on flaws, avoiding challenges, and struggling to accept compliments. It can also lead to social withdrawal, people-pleasing tendencies, and difficulty asserting oneself.
Here's a more detailed look at the signs:
Negative Self-Perception and Self-Talk:
· Critical self-evaluation:
People with low self-esteem often harshly judge themselves, focusing on perceived flaws and mistakes.
· Negative self-talk:
They might engage in negative internal conversations, putting themselves down and questioning their worth.
· Downplaying achievements:
They might attribute their successes to luck or external factors, rather than their own abilities.
· Unrealistic expectations:
They may set impossibly high standards for themselves and feel inadequate when they fall short.
· Feelings of inferiority:
They might believe others are superior to them and constantly compare themselves negatively to others.
Emotional and Behavioural Patterns:
· Avoidance:
They might avoid social situations, new challenges, or opportunities for fear of failure or judgment.
· People-pleasing:
They may prioritize the needs and opinions of others to gain approval and avoid conflict.
· Difficulty accepting compliments:
They might struggle to believe positive feedback or dismiss it as insincere.
· Sensitivity to criticism:
They may react strongly to criticism, even if constructive, and take it as further evidence of their inadequacy.
· Social withdrawal:
They might isolate themselves from others to avoid potential negative experiences or judgments.
· Lack of assertiveness:
They may struggle to express their opinions or needs, fearing rejection or conflict.
· Anxiety and depression:
Low self-esteem can contribute to feelings of anxiety, hopelessness, and sadness.
Physical Signs:
· Poor posture:
Low self-esteem can manifest physically in slumped shoulders and a lack of eye contact.
· Excessive grooming:
In some cases, individuals with low self-esteem might engage in excessive grooming or self-care as a way to compensate for negative self-perceptions.
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